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margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf="">&nbsp; &nbsp; 你是否想成为完美的父母?你是否担心自己不能正确抚养儿女,并为此忧心忡忡?&nbsp;《建造幸福的家》是一本融合心理学与实务操作的家庭建造指南，适合希望提升家庭关系的夫妻或父母阅读。</span></p><p><br/></p><section><span leaf="">&nbsp; &nbsp; 吉姆·博恩斯博士会告诉你:完美的家庭是不存在的,包括他自己的。同时他也传递了一个令人兴奋的信息:大多数父母对儿女的抚养教育都非常出色,只是他们没有意识到而已。</span></section><section><span leaf="">&nbsp; &nbsp; 作者在本书中总结出建立幸福家庭的10项关键原则:陪伴、欣赏肯定、价值观、始终如一的教育原则、减压、沟通、家庭娱乐、夫妻关系、理财、世界观。这些是作者25年辅导经验的总结,是采访了几百对夫妻后的智慧结晶。当你学会了这10项关键原则之后，你会发现你的家庭中充满了爱。除了真知灼见,本书中也讲述了大量精彩的家庭故事,温馨感人,妙趣横生。一些章节后所附的测试评估表格,更是为人父母者迎接挑战、解决难题的实用利器。</span></section><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p style="text-wrap: wrap; margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf=""></span></p><p><br/></p><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="color: #ffa900; font-weight: bold">内容摘要</span></span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石一：高质量陪伴 —— 家庭联结的起点</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">核心主张 “孩子优先”，强调陪伴不是时间的堆砌，而是专注的关爱投入。书中指出，日常互动中的专注倾听、共同参与小事等 “有效陪伴”，能构建孩子的安全感，是家庭情感联结的基础。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石二：欣赏与肯定 —— 成长的正向动力</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">提出 “AWE 教育法”（肯定、温暖、鼓励），反对 “家庭警察” 式的批评思维。主张表扬需及时具体，通过主动发现家人优点、表达认可，强化家庭成员的自我价值感，营造积极的家庭氛围。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石三：健康价值观 —— 家庭的精神锚点</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">引导父母主动承担价值观教育责任，帮助孩子在网络、媒体等 “文化洪流” 中建立判断力。涵盖对金钱、责任、善恶等议题的引导，强调价值观需通过日常言行渗透，而非单纯说教。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石四：教育一致性 —— 规则的生命力</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">提出 “先做学生，再做家长”，主张父母需统一教育原则，避免 “双重标准”。倡导与孩子共同制定 “家庭契约”，明确规则与边界，通过一致的引导培养孩子的责任感，而非强迫服从。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石五：家庭优先 —— 平衡生活的智慧</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">呼吁打破 “过劳生活” 循环，践行 “减法生活”。强调工作需为家庭让步，通过合理规划时间、减少无效社交，保障家庭相处质量，同时主动为孩子缓解学业等压力。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石六：深度沟通 —— 理解的桥梁</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">视沟通为 “互动的动词”，而非单向表达。提供具体方法：使用 “爱的语言” 传递情感、勇于向孩子道歉、通过耐心倾听化解矛盾，强调沟通需兼顾内容与情感温度。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石七：家庭娱乐 —— 亲密的催化剂</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">主张 “越玩儿越亲密”，强调家庭需预留专属娱乐时间。通过共同游戏、户外活动等轻松场景，弱化角色压力，让家庭成员在欢乐中强化情感联结。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石八：夫妻关系 —— 家庭的定海神针</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">指出 “爱伴侣是给孩子最好的礼物”，夫妻关系的质量直接影响家庭氛围。倡导通过专属时光、共同目标等维系亲密感，夯实家庭幸福的核心根基。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石九：理性理财 —— 物质与精神的平衡</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">提出 “生命中最好的不是物质”，强调理财需兼顾实用与价值观传递。通过 “家庭经济会议” 等形式，培养孩子的金钱观，避免物质欲望侵蚀家庭关系。</span></section><section><span leaf=""><span textstyle="" style="font-weight: bold">基石十：精神滋养 —— 家庭的灵魂支柱</span></span></section><section><span leaf="">为家人提供 “精神食粮”。通过家庭会议、榜样示范等方式，构建家庭成员的精神共鸣，让爱与信念成为家庭的持久凝聚力。</span></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-wrap: wrap; margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf=""></span></p><p style="text-wrap: wrap; margin-bottom: 0px;"><strong style="color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">作者介绍</strong><span leaf=""></span></p><p style="text-wrap: wrap; margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf="">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;</span><span leaf="" data-pm-slice="1 1 [&quot;para&quot;,{&quot;tagName&quot;:&quot;p&quot;,&quot;attributes&quot;:{&quot;style&quot;:&quot;white-space: normal;margin-bottom: 0px;&quot;},&quot;namespaceURI&quot;:&quot;http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml&quot;}]">吉姆·博恩斯博士是美国青少年教育机构的主席。青少年教育机构是一家非营利性的组织，其宗旨是指导父母如何培养孩子，并为世界各地的父母及青少年组织的工作者提供帮助。每天有100多万听众通过广播收听博恩斯博士的讲座。吉姆与妻子凯茜和三个孩子住在南加利福尼亚。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px;"><span leaf=""></span></p><p style="line-height: 27.2px; text-wrap: wrap; margin-bottom: 0px;"><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="color: rgb(17, 17, 17);font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;text-indent: 26px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span leaf=""></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; 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margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><img src="http://walk-mate.cn/zb_users/upload/2022/6/2022062176818537.jpg" width="520" height="776" title="中层领导力.jpg" alt="中层领导力.jpg" style="width: 311px; height: 427px;"/></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><br/></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">内容简介</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;一切成败皆系领导力，而领导力源于持续不断的自我成长。只需10个步骤，轻松提升领导力。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;领导力大师约翰·<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">麦克斯</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">韦</span>尔博士提出，领导力不是一种与生俱来的天赋，它是一种可以学习掌握，并能逐步提升的思维模式。他在《中层领导力：自我修行篇》一书中总结了提升领导力所需的10个步骤，为学习领导力提供了有效的方法。《中层领导力：自我修行篇》自出版以来，销量突破100万册，堪称领导力自我养成必读书。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">作者介绍</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;约翰·麦克斯韦尔是全球领导力大师、思想家，20多年来一直致力于帮助人们发挥领导力潜能。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 其影响力遍及全球126个国家，500万经理人推崇备至，著有50多本畅销书，全球总销售量已经超过1亿。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 《领导力21法则》、《与人共赢的25个关键》、《360度领导力》、《真正的成功》等都是风靡全球的畅销书。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 他每年受邀在全球各地发表有关领导力的演讲，听众多达几十万人，包括世界500强企业、各国政要、西点军校、美国职业篮球联赛等组织和机构。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; 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height: 417px;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); visibility: visible;">作者简介</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 彼得·圣吉，麻省理工学院斯隆管理学院高级讲师，国际组织学习学会和索奥中国的创始主席。圣吉被誉为最富创新精神的世界级管理学和领导学思想大师之一，被《商业周刊》选入十大有影响力的管理学人物，被称为“学习型组织之父”。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); visibility: visible;">本书介绍</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 《第五项修炼》被《金融时报》称为有影响力的五部工商巨著之一。彼得·圣吉在1990年出版的《第五项修炼》中即提出“学习型组织”的概念，并不断丰富公司的案例。这本书不仅带动了美国经济近十年的高速发展，还引发了一场创建学习型组织的管理浪潮。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">核心内容</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 作者彼得·圣吉在这本书里指出，我们每个人其实都有主动学习的天性，但传统的管理模式却压抑了这种天性，把一个个有潜力的人变成了平庸的螺丝钉，进而也让整个组织丧失了自主进化的能力。而一个组织能够拥有长期竞争力的关键，就在于他们有比竞争对手更快更好的主动学习能力和自主进化能力。由此，他提出了学习型组织这个概念，并系统阐述了打造学习型组织所需要的五项修炼。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 它们分别是：自我超越、心智模式、共同愿景、团队学习和系统思考。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第一项修炼是自我超越</strong>，就是说你要有不断超越自己能力的愿望，有热情和动力去学习。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;自我超越的修炼是学习型组织的精神基础，它是学习不断看清并加深个人的真正愿望，集中精力，培养耐心，并客观地观察现实，以期不断实现内心深处实现的愿望。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 具有高度自我超越能力的人，能不断扩展他们创造生命中真正所向往事物的能力，以个人追求为起点，形成学习组织的精神。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第二项要修炼的能力是心智模式</strong>。它说的是每个人看这个世界有一些固定的想法、观点以及思考问题的方式，在不同人的大脑里面对这个世界的认知和解释其实是不一样的，而你的所有行动、做法都是在你的心智模式的影响下产生的。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第三项修炼，是共同愿景。</strong>共同愿景其实是从团队的层面去讲如何建立学习的热情，就是所有人都得心往一处想，团队每个人都拥有一个共同的目标，这样团队学习起来才有干劲。所谓“人在一起是团伙，心在一起才是团队”，否则东打一枪西打一枪，这个团队一定是内耗非常严重的。所以团队组织要学习，第一步是让大家达成共识，有共同目标。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第四项修炼就是团队学习。</strong>有了大家共同认可的共同愿景之后，还需要大家有能力实现这个愿景。团队学习其实就是让团队的每个人都能够亮出自己的心智模式，彼此能够互相交流、互相启发，从而让这个团队快速地学习和进步。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">第五项修炼，就是系统思考。</strong>系统思考是一项架构整体的修炼，能让人们看见互相关联的事件，以及渐渐变化的形态。它可以帮助组织以整体的、动态的而不是局部的、静止的观点看问题，因而为建立学习型组织提供了指导思想、原则和技巧。系统思考将前四项修炼熔合为一个理论与实践的统一体。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">作品影响</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 《第五项修炼：学习型组织的艺术实践》其主要内容旨在说明：学习型组织正是人们从工作中获得生命意义、实现共同愿望和获取竞争优势的组织蓝图；要想建立学习型组织，系统思考是必不可少的“修炼”。这种理论和方法一经提出，立即获得国际学术界、管理界、企业界的广泛共识。“学习型组织”的理念、发展模式也迅即风靡世界，赢得各国许多社会组织管理者、领导者的青睐。该书出版不久，即以其革命性的创新获得1992年世界企业管理协会荣誉奖——开拓奖，彼得·圣吉本人也被冠以20世纪90年代的“管理学宗师”的称号。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; white-space: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 26px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-align: left; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">===关于同行者书友汇===</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; line-height: 27.2px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同行者书友汇</strong>——以书会友，为您提供高质量的社交和阅读空间！专注于<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;">个人成长和生活平衡</span>。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(68, 68, 68);"/><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同行者的理念</strong>：三人行必有我师，我们一起分享、实践、成长！与良师益友同行，与梦想同行！<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(68, 68, 68);"/>微信公众号：walk-mate</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">网址：www.walk-mate.cn</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">Q群：261081758</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">倡导生活六方面的平衡（家庭|事业|健康|财富|关系|自我）</span></span></p>]]></description><category>荐书</category><comments>http://walk-mate.cn/post/427.html#comment</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://walk-mate.cn/feed.asp?cmt=427</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>【荐书】《动态领导技能》</title><author>binhong_007@126.com (同行者)</author><link>http://walk-mate.cn/post/426.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2022 11:35:11 +0800</pubDate><guid>http://walk-mate.cn/post/426.html</guid><description><![CDATA[<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); visibility: visible;"><img src="http://walk-mate.cn/zb_users/upload/2022/5/2022051741738437.jpg" width="650" height="970" title="dongtailingdao.jpg" alt="dongtailingdao.jpg" style="width: 378px; height: 487px;"/></strong></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); visibility: visible;">内容简介</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 本书所写的是数千位领导人的导师德士特·耶格（1939-2019）先生真实的人生故事，他激励不同阶层的人，助力他们实现人生梦想。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 作者罗恩·鲍尔先生曾在24 个国家向500 多万人现场做培训演讲。他对德士特·耶格先生的交际能力、人格魅力的形成与表现方式进行深入探究，总结出可供学习的宝贵经验，实现和释放自身的可能性，激发领导潜能。这个回忆录关于人际关系如何影响我们生活的每一部分。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 从这本书里，你将学会：如何利用“造梦的艺术”来增加你的收入，如何把困难的人变成朋友，自尊和自负之间有什么区别，以及为什么要区别清楚这两个概念。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 26px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-align: left; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">===关于同行者书友汇===</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; line-height: 27.2px; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同行者书友汇</strong>——以书会友，为您提供高质量的社交和阅读空间！专注于<span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word;">个人成长和生活平衡</span>。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(68, 68, 68);"/><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">同行者的理念</strong>：三人行必有我师，我们一起分享、实践、成长！与良师益友同行，与梦想同行！<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(68, 68, 68);"/>微信公众号：walk-mate</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">网址：www.walk-mate.cn</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">Q群：261081758</span><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: left; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-stretch: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">倡导生活六方面的平衡（家庭|事业|健康|财富|关系|自我）</span></span></p><p><br/></p>]]></description><category>荐书</category><comments>http://walk-mate.cn/post/426.html#comment</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://walk-mate.cn/feed.asp?cmt=426</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>【荐书】《脆弱的力量》</title><author>binhong_007@126.com (同行者)</author><link>http://walk-mate.cn/post/425.html</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 May 2022 11:30:20 +0800</pubDate><guid>http://walk-mate.cn/post/425.html</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://walk-mate.cn/zb_users/upload/2022/5/2022051741506573.jpg" width="357" height="484" title="脆弱.jpg" alt="脆弱.jpg" style="width: 357px; height: 484px; float: left;" border="0" hspace="0" vspace="0"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); visibility: visible;">内容简介</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 我们常常困扰于那些负面的经历和情绪，如脆弱、羞耻、恐惧和自卑，甚至认为正是这些不完美让我们深陷于疲惫，阻碍了我们的成长。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;然而正是我们自身的脆弱赋予我们力量，“在充满危机和不确定的路上，当自我拉扯、纠结、恐惧缠绕你时，人生不完美的‘礼物’不期而至，拥有它们会让你全心投入生活。”</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 生活中有酸甜苦辣，人生也时有阴晴圆缺，起起落落的人生就是一种感受，一场历练。许多人抱怨工作辛苦，生活很累，时常会感到疲惫、焦虑、不安、恐惧……乐观的人允许自己有哀伤和脆弱，因为他坚信这一切终会过去。更多的人则是不得不隐藏真实的自己，以求看起来和周围的环境相适应，和周围的人相一致。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 于生活里实践爱，勇敢对信任的人表达倾诉自己的脆弱和不完美以及需要被关怀，从而释放获得复原能力，让真诚的本心丢弃负面累积，充满灿烂阳光，更好的热爱生命本身，就是收获最好的礼物，即是脆弱的力量。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; 请跟随布朗的步伐，俯拾人生旅程中的十个”物”，开启全心投入、全力去爱的人生吧！</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者简介</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; text-indent: 26px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;</span>布琳 • 布朗（Brene Brown Ph.D） ，知名学者、畅销书作家，是认证的社工师（LMSW），也是休斯敦大学社工研究院的研究教授。她花了十二年时间研究人类心灵的脆弱、勇气、价值感以及自卑感。研究结果被欧普拉、CNN、ABC、NBC、美国公共电视网、华盛顿邮报、纽约时报广泛报道。2008年，她成为休斯敦酗酒与药物防治学会的行为健康常驻学者。她的文章经常出现在《Self》杂志、《ELLE 杂志》、《REAL SIMPLE杂志》、《Prevention女性健康杂志》、《Scientific American Mind杂志》以及美国许多报纸上。她也是美国各地广播节目时常邀请的对象，并被《休斯敦女性杂志》指名为「2009年最具影响力的女性」之一。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);">精彩摘要</strong><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">坦露自己或许痛苦</strong>，但远不如我们用生命来躲避它来得痛苦；承认自己的弱点或许危险，但远不如我们放弃爱、归属感和喜悦来得危险——正是这些体验让我们变得脆弱不堪，但我们只有勇于探索黑暗，才能发现无限的光明。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">勇气是一种习性、习惯、美德</strong>，只有勇敢的作为才能使你充满勇气。正如只有在水里游动，你才能学会游泳。只有大胆作为，你才能学会勇敢。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只有了解自己内心的晦暗，我们才能与别人的悲苦同在</strong>。当我们体察到彼此共同的人性，仁慈心才会成为现实。”</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">仁慈的核心是接纳。</strong>当我们越是接纳自我和他人，我们就会变得更加富有仁慈心。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">全心投入生活的人生旅程并不是走下坡路，而是一条我们有意选择的康庄大道。</strong>坦白说，这种观点也许有些违背当下的主流文化。主动说出自己的故事、感受别人的痛苦、在这个冷漠的世界里与他人真实地产生联结绝不是一时兴起的事情。实践勇气、仁慈心和联结就是面对人生，看着周围的人，可以坦然地说：“我好累。”</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只要我们放下别人的看法，满足于真实的自我，就能找到自我价值感</strong>——觉得自己足够完满，并认同自己值得拥有爱和归属感。如果我们的行为不符合他人的期待，我们常常会远离真实的自我，从而迎合他人的预期以获得对自我价值的认同。自我价值感是帮助我们拥有爱和归属感的重要因素，而它恰恰就存在于我们的人生故事当中。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">全心投入生活的真正核心</strong>在于：当下这一刻的价值感，既没有先决条件，也不是“当……时”。<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们“现在”就值得拥有爱和归属感</strong>，此时此刻，如此而已。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当我们把自己最脆弱、最强大的一面坦露给别人时；<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当我们怀着信任、尊重、好感和喜爱与人交往并珍视彼此间精神的联结时，我们就拥有了爱。</strong></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爱不是我们付出或得到什么</strong>，它是存在于一个人心里的一粒种子，然后在两人之间慢慢培育、生长而形成的联结——我们只有爱自己，才能爱他人。羞耻感、责怪、蔑视、背叛、有所保留的情感都会阻碍爱的生长，只有当这些阻碍被承认、修复、削弱的时候，爱才能存活下来。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">归属感是人类与生俱来的欲望</strong>，即渴望成为比自己更强大的事物的一部分。出于本能，我们常常通过适应环境和追求别人的认可来获得归属感，但适应和认可都不能取代归属感，反而会成为真正获得归属感的阻碍。只有当我们展露真实的、不完美的自我时，我们才能获得归属感，自我接纳比归属感更加重要。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果我们想要全心生活，全力去爱，如果我们想要生活处处都让自己充满价值感，我们必须讨论<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">阻碍我们幸福的因素</strong>——尤其是羞耻感、恐惧和脆弱。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">复原力是逐渐领悟的过程。</strong>这段经历告诉了我什么道理呢？我们不仅要拥抱自己的过去，爱过去的自己，并且要还原事情的真相！我们必须学会通过克服羞耻感来创造自我价值。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">经历是我们获得价值感的源头，拥抱自己的不完美带给我们的是勇气、仁慈心和联结。</strong>如果想拥有充实的生活，而不是一味担心自己不够完美，我们必须面对真实的自己。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人们常常希望人生能重新来过，因为他们想得到更多，以为这样就能够随心所欲，更加快乐，现实却恰恰相反。<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你必须先成为真实的自己，然后做自己真正想做的事</strong>，你才能拥有梦想中的一切。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为了消除完美主义，<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们应该接纳自己的脆弱</strong>，要了解感到羞耻、被人评判、受到别人的责怪是再普通不过的情绪体验；培养自己从羞耻感中站起来的复原力；练习自我仁慈之心。当我们变得更爱自己、更善待自己时，我们就是在实践从羞耻感中站起来的复原力，我们能够拥抱自身的不完美，在拥抱自身不完美的过程中我们会获得三种真正的礼物：勇气、仁慈心和联结。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">灵性是觉察和认同有一种比我们更强大的力量使我们彼此的关系密不可分，我们与这股力量及彼此之间的关系都<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">建立在爱和仁慈的基础之上</strong>。灵性实践有助于我们洞察人生真谛，创造人生价值。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">直觉不是一种单一的认知方式</strong>——它是我们为不确定性保留空间的能力，我们愿意去相信获得知识和洞察力存在着多种方式，包括本能、经验、信念和理智。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世上大多数人都渴望在受挫和受伤之前能够获得某种担保，信念是我们全心投入生活与爱的重要保证，即使看不见，我们的内心也要秉持信念：“<strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">全心全意地去爱，尽管没有任何担保。</strong>”</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">信念是一块神秘之地</strong>，我们从中获得勇气去相信肉眼无法看见的东西，并从中获得力量去消除对不确定性的恐惧。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; 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text-indent: 28px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">50多本畅销书，全球总销售量已经超过1亿。</span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, Arial, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, &quot;WenQuanYi Micro Hei&quot;, sans-serif; text-indent: 28px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">&nbsp; &nbsp; 《领导力21法则》、《与人共赢的25个关键》、《360度领导力》、《真正的成功》等都是风靡全球的畅销书。</span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 他每年受邀在全球各地发表有关领导力的演讲，听众多达几十万人，包括世界500强企业、各国政要、西点军校、美国职业篮球联赛等组织和机构。</p><p><br/></p><p><img src="http://walk-mate.cn/zb_users/upload/2022/3/2022031980201313.jpg" width="1053" height="381" title="领导力的五个层次.jpg" alt="领导力的五个层次.jpg" style="width: 776px; height: 268px;"/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 约翰·麦克斯韦尔提出领导力就是影响力，并将影响力划分为五个层次，从低到高分别是：</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 1、职位--人们因为你的职位而不得不服从你，</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 2、认同--人们认同你，与你的关系好而追随你，</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 3、生产--人们因为你对组织所做出的贡献而追随你，<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 4、立人--人们因为你培养他们而追随你，<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 5、巅峰--人们因为你的领袖特质，以及你所代表的使命感而追随你。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 领导力的5个层次无时无刻不在影响着我们的领导力人生，领导力是一个循序渐进的过程，而非一种静止不前的状态，这5个层次就是领导力层层递进的状态。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 通过《领导力的五个层次》这本书，可以清晰的为自己规划一个“领导力成长计划”，我们将学习如何迈向更高的领导力层次，最终成为更富有影响力、更受人尊敬与更加成功的领导者。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><strong>第一层次：职位型领导力</strong></span><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;人们追随你是因为他们非听不可。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 这是是领导力的入门层次，所拥有的影响力来源他的职位头衔。即使员工能去服从他，那也往往是因为他们非听不可。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 仅仅做到职位型管理者（还不能称之为领导者）或许能够成为“老板”，但是难以称得上是真正的领导。在这样思想的指导下，他们所拥有的是唯命是从的下属，而非和衷共济的团队。这类管理者依靠各种规章制度来管束员工。这样的直接后果就是员工只会管理者权威所及的范围内服从他们完成“分内事”，而管理者于其权力范围之外的事情则实难从命了。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"> 第二层次：认同型领导力</span></strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;人们追随你是因为他们愿意听你的。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 这完全是基于人际关系的把握。在认同这个领导力层面上，人们追随你是因为他们愿意听你的，当你喜欢他人，将他们当做有血有肉的个体来看待，你就开始影响他们，在此过程中，信任得以建立。无论是在家还是在工作中，无论是在娱乐消遣中或是在义务奉献中，工作环境都变得积极向上。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 处于第二个层次的领导者，其着眼点已非维持自己的职位，而在于如何去了解身边的人并努力探寻和他们的相处之道。领导者与追随者彼此了解，推心置腹，建立起牢固而持久的友好关系。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><strong>第三层次：生产型领导力</strong></span></p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 人们追随你是因为你对组织所做出的贡献。<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 达到“认同”这一层次的领导者面临的最大危险往往是固步自封于此。然而真正优秀的领导者并非只是营造一个舒适的工作环境，他们更能把任务完成，工作做好。这是为什么领导者要努力迈向第三层次-生产。这一领导力层次是基于成果，领导者由此获得影响力与公信力。人们开始追随领导者是因为他们对于整个组织的巨大付出。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 当领导者迈向领导力的第三个层次时，很多有益的方面逐渐显现。工作突飞猛进，斗志奋发昂扬，营业利润增长，员工流失减少，目标得以实现，也是在这一层次上，动能作用得以发挥。在这一层次上，领导和影响他人成为一种乐趣，领导者在迈向领导力第三层次中成为变革的代言人。他们能够勇敢面对并及时解决棘手的难题，他们能够做出艰难的抉择挽回困局，他们更能够将追随者引领至新的高效境界。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; <strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">第四层次：立人/育人型领导力</span></strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 人们追随你是因为你对他们所付出的。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 立人，是让领导者的身份从生产者转变为培养者。立人型领导者充分运用自身的职位权力、人脉关系与生产能力投资于他们的追随者，着力培养他们，直到他们真正成长为新的领导者。这就是孔子所说的：已欲立而立人，已欲达而达人。这样的结果就是不断的成就他人。</p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 高绩效产出能够贏得竞争，但是关注人才培养能够获得持久的优势。<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 处于第四层次上的领导者改变了他们追随者的人生。人们之所以追随他们也是因为领导者为他们个人所付出的。这种条件下结成的人际关系往往是延续终生，牢不可破的。</p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; <span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"><strong>第五层次：巅峰/领袖特质型领导力</strong></span></p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 人们追随你是因为你的领袖特质以及你所代表的东西.<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 领导力的最高也是最难企及的层次是巅峰的领袖特质，虽然大多数人能够实现从第一层次向第四层次的跨越，但是第五层次所需要的不仅仅是努力，技能和意向，某种程度上也需要具备高水平的天赋。只有天赋异禀的领导者曾经历到这一步。那么走到巅峰的领导者又在做些什么？他们致力于培养实现第四层次的领导者。巅峰领导者往往能够超越他们自身的职位、所处的组织，乃至所从事的行业。<br/></p><p><br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 由此可见，领导力的形成和提升是一个漫长的过程，而且这个过程就像练功一般，不进则退。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; 现在，就让我们跟随领导力的五个层次，一起进入领导力的修炼之旅吧！<br/></p><p><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; 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height: 429px;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">内容简介</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">　　你是否觉得上班很累，时常感到疲惫不堪，每天下班时精疲力竭。手里的工作越来越多，专业能力却好像还不如从前。更是对工作以外的生活失去热情，幽默感全然不再。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 不只是你，这种职业倦怠正在整个社会蔓延，没有人想要刻意进入倦怠状态，却无法避开。人们的精神与身体受困于工作，思想陷入迷茫，不知如何化解。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 本书作者提出，要解决这个问题，我们必须拥有复原力，通过管理精力摆脱使身体耗竭的思想和行为。如果我们能有意识地控制自己的能量，将其分配到我们生活中最重要的事情上，我们克服倦怠的问题就会取得突破。本书提供了一个具体而深入的能量分析方式，包括四大关键维度，即从头、心、手和幽默感着手，突破倦怠期。通过阅读这本书，我们可以理解自己为何精疲力竭，检查阻碍自己放松、补充能量的思维和习惯，了解如何恢复元气，从而重燃生活热情。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(255, 76, 0);"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者简介</strong></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;艾琳·麦克达尔</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;知名引导师、获奖作者、国际公认的主题演讲家和高管教练。</p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;她通过展开重要的对话、建立有价值的关系，帮助组织和个人改变他们的业务和生活，已有30余年。她为美国及国际大型组织提供咨询服务，在实践中积累了大量的商业知识和丰富的生活经验。她的课程内容丰富、互动性强、振奋人心、趣味性强，自始至终充满欢声笑语。在全球大师国际（Global Gurus International）评选的“全球30位沟通专家”中，她位列榜首。<br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; text-indent: 2em; word-break: normal; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); line-height: 27.2px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; text-indent: 26px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 16px;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(17, 17, 17); font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; text-indent: 26px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;</span><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 0, 0); text-align: left; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">===关于同行者书友汇===</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: justify; 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width: 323px; height: 424px;"/></p><p><br/></p><p><span style="color: rgb(227, 108, 9);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">内容简介</span></strong></span></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;在信息过剩的时代里，这是一本学会批判性思维的终极指南。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 《我会独立思考》的妙趣在于它是一本构筑思考能力地基、互动性自查性超强的批判性思维成长指南。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 这本书一步一步引导你如何更深入地思考自己生活和时事，培养独立思考的能力将帮助你学会如何精准提问、分析证据真伪、运用思维逻辑得出合理结论，从而解决问题并做出明智的判断。丰富的示例展示了在不同领域中具有卓越影响力和非凡成就的批判性思维者，他们年轻有为、鼓舞人心的真实思考经历具有可参考性的借鉴意义。这本书叙述清晰易懂，四色印刷精美，画风有趣的插图伴随着进阶性的思维训练、梳理清单、自我检测和实践互动，是一本既简单又理解性强的思维学习工具书，你可以收获批判性思维透过信息表层带来的全面视角。<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; “你如何根据事实形成自己观点，并做出决定？”</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; “你如何评估海量信息的重要性、准确性和相关性？”</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; “你如何与意见不同的人展开有深度的讨论？”<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; “你如何避免逻辑谬误和情绪干扰？”<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; “批判性思维”究竟是怎样炼成的？<br/></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 读完后，再看看你自己的思考中到底欠缺了什么吧！<br/></p><p><br/></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(227, 108, 9); font-size: 16px;">作者简介</span></strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 安德里亚·戴宾克</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; 美国屡获殊荣的作家和编辑，曾任《美国女孩》专栏编辑，目前在威斯康星州麦迪逊市生活和写作。在过去的十年里一直为儿童写作。<br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(227, 108, 9); font-size: 16px;">===关于同行者书友汇===</span></strong></p><p><strong>同行者书友汇</strong>——以书会友，为您提供高质量的社交和阅读空间！专注于个人成长和生活平衡。</p><p><strong>同行者的理念：</strong>三人行必有我师，我们一起分享、实践、成长！与良师益友同行，与梦想同行！</p><p><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">微信公众号：</span></strong><strong><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">walk-mate</span></strong></p><p>网址：www.walk-mate.cn</p><p>Q群：261081758</p><p><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">倡导生活六方面的平衡（家庭|事业|健康|财富|关系|自我）</span></p><p><br/></p>]]></description><category>荐书</category><comments>http://walk-mate.cn/post/421.html#comment</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://walk-mate.cn/feed.asp?cmt=421</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>
